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The Devil in the Pew

January 17, 2017 by Patricia

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“Also, whenever anyone approached him to bow down before him, Absalom would reach out his hand, take hold of him and kiss him. Absalom behaved in this way toward all the Israelites who came to the king asking for justice, and so he stole the hearts of the people of Israel.” 2 Samuel 15:5-6 (NIV – emphasis added)

He sat down to pen one more Psalm to the God of His Salvation. His Redeemer. His defender. As he wrote the words, the thought must not have left him: “I am paying for my sins.”

Dethroned and betrayed by those he trusted, even his own blood, David found himself depressed and alone. Absalom had taken his place as ruler of Judah and the people who once welcomed and revered David as their king, now fell for his son’s lies and schemes.

Chapters 15, 16 and 17 of 2 Samuel weave a web of unthinkable betrayal, lies and deceit, rendering a father heartbroken, a king without a kingdom, and a nation confused and divided.

All because a man, blinded by the devil and by relentless power thirst, schemed and played God’s people.

Right in the center of God’s house.

One bad apple.

The devil in the pew.

Or, as in David’s case, in the family.

I have been a Christian for over 20 years, and I am still amazed of how often the devil uses people in the church to cause division, tear up ministries, friendships, and get God’s people unfocused from His purpose for our lives.

They may not be as intentional in destroying a person’s life as Absalom was, but they are nevertheless used to cause strife and division, confusion and pain. And unless our spiritual antennas are in perfect sync with the Father, they can easily sway us into a place of spiritual deafness, if we choose to join their bandwagon.

Because the Father never blesses dissension.

“There are six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.” Proverbs 6:16-19 (NIV)

All seven things that are detestable to God have to do with pride, envy and the consequences of those two elements in a person’s life:

Gossip that often hides a heart full of self-righteousness…

Smiles that conceal the true intent of the heart…

Veiled good intentions that are filled with hurtful intents.

These words were Solomon’s instructions to his son on how he should guard his heart, as well as admonition regarding people he would encounter in life.

People we ALL encounter in life.

And you know them. Oh, yes, you do.

They could be part of your family, or even someone you call friend. It’s not that hard to spot them.

We just sometimes choose to turn a blind eye.

They see bad in every situation… and look for the flaw in everything…

They are always ready to criticize and judge… and they flatter without realizing that you know what they say behind your back…

They are professors, doctors of Scripture even! They are successful business people, homemakers, and officers.

They all profess Jesus as their Lord and Savior.

But their actions and words don’t reflect His light.

As a matter of fact, the devil is using them to tear up God’s church. And we sit down, allow it, and even help them!

It’s sad.

It’s evil.

Worse yet – because their hearts are often blinded to the real reason behind their actions, they don’t even realize the damage they cause to the church. They are the reason many leave its doors, never to turn back.

And yet, they go on merrily singing their hallelujahs and quoting Scripture.

The devil in the pew.

May God help us to be able to swiftly spot them. May the Holy Spirit reveal to us the true intent of their hearts. May He give us the strength and wisdom to rise up and not join the throng that sheepishly follows their ways.

May He help us not do the very things He hates, thus dethroning Jesus, the Peacemaker, from our hearts.

And, finally, may He have mercy on them, opening their eyes to see the true intent of their hearts, and the path of destruction they leave behind.

One cannot help the evil thoughts that come, but it is the thoughts we cultivate that make the difference between good or evil. We don’t have to open the door to the devil and say, “Make yourself at home.”  Rev. Vance Havne

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Digging deeper & Praying for deliverance and protection:

Read and meditate on the Psalms David wrote during his trial concerning his son’s betrayal:

 Psalms 39, 41, 55, 61, 62, 63

 

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About Patricia

Patricia Holbrook is the President of Soaring with Him Ministries, author, columnist, blogger, wife and mom. Her passion is to encourage her audience to "soar above life's circumstances" by the power of God's Word and the Holy Spirit's guidance. She writes about making beauty out of brokenness, trusting God in the dark, the blessings of obedience and her love for the Savior. Among other places, you can find her writing weekly on her blog, www.soaringwithHim.com. on her weekend column for the Atlanta Journal Constitution www.ajc.com, on iDisciple and websites such as LifeLetter Cafe, among others. Patricia is also a national and international speaker for women's events and is currently attending Covington Seminary, where she is enrolled in their Master’s program in Bible Studies.

Comments

  1. Jennifer Henn says

    January 17, 2017 at 5:19 pm

    These verses in Proverbs say so much. So much pain and hurt could be avoided by living this out. May I guard my heart and not hurt anyone.

    • Patricia says

      January 18, 2017 at 3:20 pm

      Amen, Jennifer. Thanks for stopping by! Blessings,

  2. Christy Mobley says

    January 18, 2017 at 3:06 pm

    I know people like this. I pray I keep my eyes on God that I may not go there myself. Good word Patricia.

    • Patricia says

      January 18, 2017 at 3:21 pm

      Thanks, Christy! It’s a sad scenario… so real and heartbreaking. YES. May God help us not do the same. Blessings.

  3. Sherry says

    January 18, 2017 at 3:20 pm

    The devil showed up and commented on my blog this week. He is everywhere. You have to know the scripture and discern without judgment. And pray for them, like Jesus, “Forgive them Father for they know not what they do.” The Father will do the judging in the end and many will be in for quite a surprise.

    • Patricia says

      January 18, 2017 at 4:11 pm

      I am sorry for what happened to you this week, Sherry. It happens to everyone. It’s a reminder that we must be “quick to listen, slow to speak.” James 1:19… The tongue is such a mighty weapon! There would be a multitude of trouble that people would avoid if they only tamed their tongues. Thanks for visiting and commenting! Blessings,

  4. Gretchen says

    January 18, 2017 at 3:44 pm

    Great reminders Patricia! Having grown up in the church, I totally understand. Easy to slip in to those harmful tendencies and we must be diligent to make sure we are not being hypocritical or naive ourselves, as well as steer clear of those causing harm. Thank you!

    • Patricia says

      January 18, 2017 at 4:13 pm

      Amen, Gretchen… We must ALL be vigilant! Thank you so much for stopping by! Blessings,

  5. Martha Orlando says

    January 18, 2017 at 5:22 pm

    Unfortunately, I’ve run into folks like this at church. They truly are poison to those around them, and they are the very ones who give Christians a bad name. I will join you in praying for them, Patricia.
    Blessings!

    • Patricia says

      January 19, 2017 at 11:17 am

      Amen, Martha! Blessings,

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