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Seeing People as People {Recharge Wednesday LINKUP}

June 6, 2018 by Bethany McIlrath

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They didn’t see a man.

They didn’t see his pain.

They didn’t notice his need.

They didn’t care that he was in the house of the Lord.

What they cared about was entrapping their perceived enemy, the one who threatened long-held traditions and the law that elevated them to a pious, powerful place. They wanted to defend what they thought they understood. Their goal was to prove their point.

So what they saw was an opportunity.

“He went into their synagogue, and a man with a shriveled hand was there. Looking for a reason to bring charges against Jesus, they asked him, ‘Is it lawful to heal on the Sabbath?’” –Matthew 12:9-10

Jesus never mistook a person for an opportunity.

The perfect example of love, Jesus never used a person as a way of self-seeking. Click To Tweet

In His response, He addressed the man, his pain, and his need. He also highlighted the God whose house the man was in. He had mercy on him. Jesus healed the man and redirected the conversation.

Much as they tried to make it about rightness, Jesus redirected them to God’s righteousness.

While they used men to serve their purposes, Jesus served men to fulfill God’s purposes.

Sadly, we tend to be more like the Pharisees.

Too often, we regard people as obstacles like when we:

  • Are curt with people for efficiency’s sake
  • Place convenience over kindness
  • See other people’s challenges as hindrances or provocation to compare ourselves

Other times, we use people as a means to our ends, like when we:

  • Expect people to be the means to our happiness
  • Enable others so we can avoid confrontation
  • Complain to loved ones so we feel better, regardless of how it affects them

Will you join me in asking the Lord’s forgiveness for seeing people as opportunities to be served instead of as opportunities to serve?

I’d like to be more Christ-like in my view of others, how about you?


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About Bethany McIlrath

Bethany McIlrath works as a marketing specialist. She creates content, copy, and social media posts for her wonderful clients on a freelance basis. The flexible work format makes serving in ministry regularly online feasible. Her passion is using words to point others to Christ and build others up in faithful, humble confidence. She writes about step by step, day by day faith on http://firstandsecondblog.com/. Bethany is also grateful to ghostwrite and guest-write for other bloggers and ministries. She and her husband Matt have been married for 5+ years and enjoy their small dog’s antics and opportunities to serve together.

Comments

  1. Michele Morin says

    June 6, 2018 at 7:18 am

    Bethany, when this post landed in my inbox early this morning, I thought, “Oh . . .I’ve got to read this.”
    I think the higher our energy level and the more of a “do-er” we are, the more we struggle with maintaining a right appreciation for the importance of people. Interesting that Jesus was able to accomplish all that the Father sent Him to do without objectifying anyone.

    • bethany mcilrath says

      June 7, 2018 at 3:56 pm

      You make me smile, Michele! I struggle the same way, and titles like this one grab my attention for that reason. I want to be all about loving people– but my do-erness distracts me from seeing people as people sometimes. Thanks for the encouragement!

  2. Rebecca Jones says

    June 6, 2018 at 11:17 am

    That’s something we all need to be more aware of as believers. Trusting the Holy Spirit to help who we can.

    • bethany mcilrath says

      June 7, 2018 at 3:57 pm

      Trusting Him is always a good choice! Thanks for stopping by and sharing encouragement!

  3. Tai East says

    June 6, 2018 at 12:14 pm

    Bethany, this is such an incredible post! It truly shows how beautiful your heart is. I am blessed by your words. Thank you so much for sharing! And Patricia, thank you so much for hosting! Hugs and blessings to you both! 🙂

    • bethany mcilrath says

      June 7, 2018 at 3:58 pm

      Thank you, Tai! I’m blessed by your encouragement and kindness! Hugs and blessings back, sweet lady!

      • Tai East says

        June 7, 2018 at 5:40 pm

        You are most welcome and so deserving, Love! 🙂

        • Bethany McIlrath says

          June 8, 2018 at 10:22 am

          Only be His grace! So are you!

  4. Christy Mobley says

    June 6, 2018 at 12:29 pm

    Wow, Bethany that was truth packed and so convicting! I often ask God to allow me to see others the way He sees them so that I may love them the way He loves them.

    • bethany mcilrath says

      June 7, 2018 at 3:58 pm

      Thanks, Christy! What a great prayer.

  5. Boma says

    June 6, 2018 at 3:02 pm

    Amen! Thanks for this reminder, Bethany. God help us! Blessings to you.

    • bethany mcilrath says

      June 7, 2018 at 3:59 pm

      Thank you, Boma! God help us indeed!

  6. Lauren Sparks says

    June 6, 2018 at 4:29 pm

    “Much as they tried to make it about rightness, Jesus redirected them to God’s righteousness.” Perfect! laurensparks.net

    • bethany mcilrath says

      June 7, 2018 at 4:01 pm

      Thanks, Lauren! Amen!

  7. Jennifer says

    June 6, 2018 at 8:43 pm

    Great post especially for us bloggers! Keeping a focus on whom we serve & the purpose of the ministry we have been called! Not self serving or self promoting but edifying the Father…a fine line isn’t it…also treating those who visit & comment on our sites with love & kindness…

    My prayer is to see others through the eyes of Jesus, it makes a huge difference in how we view others! 😀
    Jennifer

    • bethany mcilrath says

      June 7, 2018 at 4:04 pm

      Thank you, Jennifer! It is hard, especially online I think because it can feel like we’re just talking with computers, not people. Joining you in this prayer!

  8. Lynn says

    June 7, 2018 at 12:08 am

    I will definitely be joining in prayer for forgiveness and guidance! I know that my personal agenda can get in the way of serving others.

    • bethany mcilrath says

      June 7, 2018 at 4:08 pm

      Mine too, Lynn! Thanks for stopping by and joining in!

  9. Lisa notes says

    June 7, 2018 at 4:26 pm

    Ouch. I know I have too often mistaken a person for an obstacle. Lord, have mercy.

    • Bethany McIlrath says

      June 8, 2018 at 10:24 am

      Me too, Lisa. Amen!

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