I glanced down at my then-10-year-old’s church notebook and smiled. There were a couple of small pictures in the margins, but unlike many other church notebooks of children her age, the page was full of notes.
She copied them fiercely from the television screens above the row where we sat for many years in the back area of First Baptist Atlanta’s sanctuary, reserved for choir members. Our baby girl copied big sister, writing and doodling in her notebook, as a children’s Bible sat on her lap.
Their eyes were glued on the screen as our pastor spoke in his gentle, deep voice, conviction and love for the gospel piercing through each Sunday message.
This was the beginning of each week in our household for 20 years.
Dr. Charles F. Stanley, the celebrated author of more than 70 books and pastor who counseled and prayed with presidents and dignitaries worldwide, was “Dr. Stanley” to us — our family’s beloved pastor and spiritual mentor.
A mix of joy and sorrow filled the airwaves and social media early Tuesday morning, April 18, as the news of Stanley’s passing came out. As I read through the countless articles and posts on social media, I thought about the impact of one simple man’s obedience to God’s calling and how it shaped the lives and eternity of millions of people around the globe.
By all accounts, Charles F. Stanley was a success story. He grew up in Dry-Fork, Virginia, during the Great Depression and experienced poverty during his childhood and teenage years. His mom, “Becca,” raised him by herself after his father’s passing when Stanley was a baby. From humble beginnings, he built a ministry that expanded to countries all over the world; his messages were translated into over 127 languages. His is indeed a God-sized story.
His sermons often contained stories from childhood and adolescence, when his mother’s simple faith shaped his understanding of God and his word. But it wasn’t until Stanley was 17 that God’s calling became evident, and a visit to his grandfather changed the course of his life.
I do not know how often I heard the story from the pulpit, but it never grew old:
Stanley had felt God’s calling to become a pastor and decided to visit his grandfather, who was a preacher himself. Stanley felt inadequate, and the thought of carrying out the calling to preach the gospel was daunting.
He recalled his granddad’s words that shaped one of his 30 life principles based on scriptures that he lived by and preached for decades:
“Charles, if God tells you to put your head through that brick wall, you run for it. It is his responsibility to open a hole.”
“Obey God and leave all the consequences to him.” This principle, born from this conversation with his grandfather, shaped Stanley’s life and became one of the cornerstones of his life-long commitment to following God’s ways, no matter the cost. That is one of 30 life principles, beautifully weaved amidst biblical accounts in Charles Stanley’s Life Application Bible.
Obey God and leave all the consequences to Him. ~ Dr. Charles F. Stanley @ajc @intouchmin #CharlesStanley Click To TweetFollowing the practical teachings based on these biblical principles gave me guidance and courage to start my ministry. Thanks to the truths preached every Sunday from Stanley’s pulpit, my husband and I found the strength to press on through life’s challenging valleys. Through the principles taught by this man of God, we found the guidance to raise our girls.
His Impact
“Dr. Stanley’s” impact was evident as my husband and I traveled down I-75 in the back of our 20-year-old’s car on Easter morning, as she and her sister took us to visit Passion City, their church. They shared about growing up and their gratitude for the home we built.
During worship, they stood beside us, hands lifted in praise as they sang. As Pastor Louis Giglio delivered the sermon, I looked down to see the same scene from years ago:
Notebooks filled with notes, highlighted and well-worn Bibles, and eyes glued to the screen, where a man whose ministry was also highly influenced by Stanley’s teachings delivered a message filled with the uncompromised truth of God’s Word.
Our world has indeed lost one of the modern-day giants of faith. But his influence, like ripples from a pebble thrown in a lake, will undoubtedly live on.
Thank you, dear pastor. Well done.
This article was originally published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday, April 22, 2023. Click HERE to find it on the AJC’s website
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Hello Patricia,
Thank you for the awesome tribute to our beloved, Dr. Stanley.
Your ministry and book are both definitely inspired by Dr. Stanley’s ministry and wisdom. Looking forward to your daughters’ futures and witnessing the impact for them too.
Blessings,
Connie
Such a moving and heart-felt tribute to one of the giants of the Christian faith. Dr. Stanley will be missed, but his legacy will endure.
Blessings, Patricia!
What a heartfelt tribute to Dr. Stanley. Well written and well done, my friend. You captured what so many feel about his teachings through the years.
Thanks Patricia for sharing your story of Dr. Stanley with us. He was not a stranger to me though not connected in same capacity. What I do see and know and believe is that all who served and worshiped in his presence may be at a loss here on earth, Heaven has gained a remarkable soul and man of God. He is a creation spoke about in Ephesians 2:10.
Thank you, dear Patricia, for sharing this beautiful tribute to our Pastor Stanley. As you have so aptly stated, “notebooks filled with notes, well-worn highlighted Bibles, eyes glued to the screen”–that was my daughter and myself after singing in the choir, in the back of the sanctuary. We are eternally grateful for Dr. Stanley’s faithfulness to teach the Word of God. He felt like a loving father to us as we listened with great anticipation, and focused on writing so many notes, not wanting to miss one word! Thank you again for sharing, Patricia!
What a lovely tribute to Dr. Stanley. I can’t think of anything better than to know that your faith and ministry lives on in those you left behind.
What a blessing to have sat under Dr. Stanley’s teaching all those years. I caught Lou Giglio’s message about his life and ministry on the radio and was so blessed by it. May God comfort you and your church family with your loss.