“I fear John Knox’s prayers more than an army of ten thousand men.” — Mary, Queen of Scotland

We find the story of King Jehoshaphat in the books of 1 Kings and 2 Chronicles in the Old Testament. He was the son of King Asa and was known to follow many of his father’s positive actions.

But as his father, Jehoshaphat was also a king who often obeyed God partially. Even though he started a national religious education program and developed an extensive legal structure throughout the kingdom, he failed to destroy idolatry in the land. He also became involved with evil King Ahab through destructive alliances.

As ambiguous as this king’s actions were, his example of what to do when surrounded by enemies or facing hardships has inspired many believers throughout the church’s history.

In the 20th chapter of 2 Chronicles, we find King Jehoshaphat surrounded by a large army comprised of the Moabites and Ammonites — ancient enemies of the Jews. Judged by its size, the enemy army would destroy Judah overnight.

Surprisingly, Jehoshaphat did not summon his war council or prepare for battle when he heard about the impending destruction. Instead, Scriptures say that “(he) resolved to inquire of the Lord, and proclaimed a fast for all Judah.”

In the following verses, Jehoshaphat spells out a prayer that should serve as a model for everyone facing a giant. His prayer contains six elements that will anchor one’s heart when enemies or challenges threaten to steal our peace and shake our faith.

King Jehoshaphat started by magnifying God and declaring his greatness, acknowledging the unlimited power available to his children: “Lord, (…) are you not the God who is in heaven? You rule over all the kingdoms of the nations. Power and might are in your hand, and no one can withstand you.”

Secondly, Jehoshaphat recounted how God had promised the land to his people and gave them victory over powerful enemies in the past. To the listening crowd, their minds would remember God’s protection against Pharaoh, his presence and provision in the wilderness, and his deliverance in Jericho when a simple march of faithful believers brought down the mighty city’s walls.

Thirdly, the king boldly declared that God was the only one who could save them — the people would cry out in faith, knowing their God was listening.

Jehoshaphat then declared Judah’s hopelessness without God, boldly asked for his favor, and affirmed his total dependence upon God: “Our God, will you not judge them? For we have no power to face this vast army that is attacking us. We do not know what to do, but our eyes are on You.”

We do not know what to do, but our eyes are on You – King Jehoshaphat, 2 Chronicles 20:12
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God’s answer to his earnest prayer was immediate. The Spirit of the Lord came upon a Levite named Jahaziel who delivered God’s message: “Do not fear or be dismayed because of this great multitude, for the battle is not yours but God’s.”

Do not fear or be dismayed (…), for the battle is not yours but God’s – 2 Chronicles 20:15
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Immediately after hearing God’s answer through Jahaziel, the king knew that his prayer was answered. He had no doubt. He promptly bowed down and worshipped God, thanking Him for a victory he could not yet see.

Recognition of God’s inexhaustible power. Remembrance of his faithfulness in the past. Declaration of complete dependence and trust in his love and grace. Recognition that we are hopeless in our situation, followed by bold, daring requests. And finally, the affirmation of our belief in the victory. That’s the recipe for effective prayers.

Jehoshaphat’s example reminds me to make my prayers more than just vain repetitions, to frame my heart to worship while praying, all the while trusting his unlimited power and unfailing love.

Yes. Such prayers pierce God’s heart and move him to fight the battles for his beloved children. And if the almighty God of the universe is for us, who or what will stand against us?

This article was originally published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday – October 22, 2022. Click HERE to view it on the AJC’s website.

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Confidence is an anchor for the heart. It separates those who only dream from those who accomplish great things. It is a crucial element of personal fulfillment, focus, and joy.

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Confidence anchors our hearts when doubts assail us and pushes us toward the next step when everything around us pulls us back. It helps us overcome hurdles, dismiss nay-sayers, and look at the mirror with a smile on our faces.

Indeed, confidence is arguably the one ingredient mixed into every success story. And yet, studies show there is a confidence crisis permeating society these days. This predicament certainly affects men, but there is no doubt that women suffer from a lack of confidence at higher degrees.

Women experience higher levels of anxiety and self-doubt. They are harsher on themselves than men and often develop low self-esteem early in life.

The issue has become ever more significant in the last two decades, as social media has created a new level of comparison.

I was a teenager in the 80s when beauty standards were primarily established by healthy-looking models like Cindy Crawford and Elle Macpherson. Moreover, girls would not compare themselves to them unless they opened a magazine or watched a movie.

Conversely, my daughters’ generation spends hours glued to their phones, where impossible beauty standards and low moral values shoot arrows at their confidence, breeding a generation of young women and men who struggle to believe they can ever measure up.

The issue is as insidious as it is dangerous: As we increasingly focus on what others think we should be or do, we drift farther away from who God created us to become. We write our names on impossible measuring sticks instead of fixing our hearts on the fact that we were, as King David said in Psalm 139, “beautifully and wonderfully made.”

As we increasingly focus on what others think we should be or do, we drift farther away from who God created us to become. @AJC @amandapittman #MondayMotivation #standinconfidencebook #confidentwomanco #amandapittman
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A couple of months ago, I interviewed a young woman for my podcast who traveled the road from self-doubt and insecurity to solid confidence.

Amanda Pittman is an up-and-coming speaker, author, and business leader, whose mission is to help women find their way out of a life of crippling insecurity to one of confidence and strong faith.

In her new book, Stand In Confidence, Pittman recounts her journey from an unhealthy relationship that bred crushing insecurity and low self-worth to rising in her God-given identity to a thriving life as a wife, mother, and businesswoman.

Pittman shares four components of confidence – the first of which undoubtedly establishes the focal point for anyone who struggles to walk towards success confidently: Clarity.

Indeed, when it comes to God’s people, I agree with Pittman that a lack of clarity about how He sees us is one of the main reasons people struggle with a lack of confidence or become paralyzed from moving forward by faith. Pittman writes: “The more clarity you have about who you are, why you’re here, and what you’re designed to do, the more confident you’ll be.”

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I could not agree more. A confidence crisis usually follows a lack of understanding that God created us for a purpose, for such a time as this, and with a unique design.

People who know who they are and have clarity about their strengths take other people’s opinions with a grain of salt and do not allow others to undermine their trust in who God says they are.

At the end of the day, if you are struggling with a lack of confidence, it could be because your focus is on how others see you or on negative messages ingrained in you. Maybe your biggest enemy is a lack of clarity on how God sees you. You are unique. Precious. The apple of His eye. The One who spoke the stars into existence thinks that much of you.

Maybe your biggest enemy is a lack of clarity on how God sees you. You are unique. Precious. The apple of His eye. The One who spoke the stars into existence thinks that much of you. @AJC @amandapittman #MondayMotivation…
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Anchoring your heart to this truth may just be the first step to overcoming self-doubt and fear and help you to step into your unique destiny confidently.

“Blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.” Prophet Jeremiah

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This article was initially published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday, October 8, 2022. Click HERE  To find it on the AJC’s website.

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“The Spirit is the dove of peace who calms us, the gift giver who equips us, the river of living water who flows out of us to refresh the world.” Max Lucado – “Help Is Here”

Fifteen minutes into my conversation with New York best-selling author and pastor Max Lucado, I was surprised by how much I did not know about the beloved author. For starters, I was unaware that he had lived in my country, Brazil, for five years and speaks Portuguese with unlikely fluency for someone who has not practiced the language in over three decades.

Up to that point, our conversation felt like coffee with an old friend — lighthearted and patched with Portuguese sentences and references to the Brazilian culture, making it one of my favorite podcast interviews.

But it wasn’t until we started talking about Lucado’s spiritual journey that I realized our stories hold more than cultural and geographical commonalities. Like me, Lucado was raised in the church but did not experience a life-changing conversion until his 20s. Like me, Lucado faced times of broad spiritual and physical depletion after being in ministry for many years. Like me, he tried to carry a heavy load on his own, doing too much with little rest for far too long.

Lucado’s new book, “Help Is Here – Finding Fresh Strength and Purpose in the Power of the Holy Spirit,” is the author’s first book on a subject that is often as mysterious as it is misconstrued. Conversely, the Bible contains more than 100 references to the Holy Spirit. Jesus spoke more about the Holy Spirit than he did about marriage, church, finances and the future. However, many believers do not grasp the relevance and, more importantly, ample availability of the Holy Spirit to help them live victorious lives, regardless of their circumstances.

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Scriptures refer to the Holy Spirit in over a dozen ways. These metaphors convey the different aspects of the help given to believers when the Holy Spirit descended from heaven at Pentecost. He is called the Teacher, Wind of God, Counselor, Intercessor, Helper and Guide, to name a few. And yet, because there is often much misunderstanding, taboo, or simply neglect of teaching the subject, many believers live defeated, not realizing the boundless help available to them.

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But the truth is, when Jesus said he would not leave His followers alone, He meant what He said. It is a truth tested and proven by believers through the centuries: the very Power that made the universe is available to all believers who dare to ask for help, guidance and peace.

“It was not a Damascus Road experience for me,” Lucado recounted. He says that during a profound personal crisis, Lucado would get up during sleepless nights to pray. Nothing happened overnight, but slowly, burdens were lifted, miracles started happening, peace silenced fear, and clarity took over the stress. He realized the change was not happenstance. The promised Helper had intervened, bringing the serenity and strength he could not find anywhere else. The experience changed his life, and he wishes to share the concept with the world.

The very power that made the universe is available to all believers who dare to ask for help, guidance and peace. @AJC @MaxLucado #HelpIsHere #TheHolySpirit #HelpIsHereBook #MaxLucado
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“The Holy Spirit comes with power. Power to make good choices, keep promises, and silence the inner voices of fear and failure,” he said. “Power to get out of bed, get on with life, get busy about the right things in the right way. Power to face the unexpected, unwanted passages of time. Power. This is what Jesus promised then, and this is what Jesus promises still.”

In a world filled with uncertainty and at a time when many feel burdened with stress and fear, “Help Is Here” offers fresh, practical guidance into a subject that was never meant to be mysterious but, rather, heaven’s tool for an abundant, purpose-filled life.

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This article was initially published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday, September 10, 2022. Click HERE To find it on the AJC’s website.

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Early in the spring, I had the opportunity of interviewing Laureus “Sport for Good” Ambassador Grant Lottering. After reading about his extraordinary story, I was curious to meet the man who escaped death.

While training for the 2013 World Masters Championship in Italy, Lottering was pronounced dead after a horrific accident. He was revived on the scene and taken to the local hospital, where doctors worked strenuously to save his life. For the next 12 months, Lottering underwent 11 surgeries, only to receive a bleak cancer diagnosis shortly afterward.

By all accounts, Lottering should not be alive. And yet, not only did he survive against all odds, but only a year after the accident, he was back on his bike and working. He founded “Im’Possible Tours,” a nonprofit focused on raising funds for underprivileged children. This year, his tours support and raise awareness for Laurel’s “Sport for Good,” an organization that uses sports as the central means to combat youth violence, discrimination and disadvantages.

While talking to Lottering, it became evident that his faith was the bulwark that protected him and the engine that propelled him through a trial that would indeed have rendered many people utterly defeated.

During the long months of hospitalization, incredible pain and uncertainties, he made a deliberate effort to focus on God’s power and the times he delivered him in the past. Lottering kept looking back to move forward – a recipe well-known to believers who have faced fear and doubts while going through valleys.

Lottering kept looking back to move forward – a recipe well-known to believers who have faced fear and doubts while going through valleys. @MGLottering @AJC #Moveforward
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Not long ago, I recalled my conversation with Lottering while reading through the sixth chapter of the gospel of St. Mark. It is undoubtedly one of the most well-known passages of the New Testament, where we find two of Jesus’ most outstanding miracles in scriptures.

After a most extraordinary event, when the master fed 5,000 with five loaves and two fish, the Bible says that he “immediately made his disciples get into a boat a go ahead of him to the other side of Bethsaida, (…)” while he left for the mountain to pray.

While in the boat, the disciples encountered a massive storm. Jesus saw that his friends were struggling and afraid and therefore came to their rescue, walking on water. It was miracle number two in less than 24 hours. Instead of feeling relief, fear overtook the disciples and completely blinded them. They did not recognize the master. Ultimately, Jesus got into the boat, and the wind stopped.

The sentence in the chapter that follows the incident gives me pause: “(the disciples) were utterly astonished, for they had not gained any insight from the incident of the loaves, but their heart was hardened.”

It’s astonishing that the men following Jesus and witnessing his power for years had not gained any insight from the miracle that had just happened ashore, only hours before. Instead of anchoring their hearts on what Jesus had done in the past, they allowed fear to take over and became afraid.

Lottering is one example of a believer who conquered the impossible by focusing on God’s promises and his record of deliverance in the past instead of the storm that circled him. He overcame not because of his strength but because he kept his eyes on his master, believing there would be a purpose for his trial. He reminded his heart that the God who showed up numerous times in his past was the same who would walk him through the next chapter of his life victoriously.

Focus on God’s promises and his record of deliverance in the past instead of the storm that circles you. @MGLottering @AJC #MondayMotivation #Moveforward
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May Lottering’s story of victory through persevering faith, contrasted with the disciples’ memory lapse, inspire us to remember to “look back to move forward,” lest we become defeated by our trials instead of sensitive to the voice who longs to bring purpose from every pain.

This article was originally published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday, July 30th, 2022. Click HERE to find it on the AJC’s website.

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A substantial part of the preaching of Jesus in the New Testament is recorded in parables. Parables tell a story, not about something that happens in real life, but a one-time fictitious event written in a simple, vivid way that engages the audience.

One cannot underestimate the importance of the parables in the gospels, especially since scholars generally regard them as words that we can confidently credit to the historical Jesus.

When Jesus spoke in parables, he did not create a new literary genre. Parables had a long tradition in Greek and Roman literacy and were employed by rhetoricians, politicians and philosophers. They were also used in Israel by wise men and women in the Old Testament and even rabbis who were Jesus’ contemporaries.

Because Jesus incorporated his core teachings in the parables, one can assert that they give us an authentic glimpse into the heart of Christianity. These fictitious stories translate the very foundations of a belief system that changed the course of history — a faith that values the condition of one’s heart over appearances, traditions and rituals.

Because Jesus incorporated his core teachings in the parables, one can assert that they give us an authentic glimpse into the heart of Christianity. @AJC #TheGreatestInheritance #Kingdomfirst #Mondaymotivation
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In the 12th chapter of the gospel of St. Luke, we find one such story in the “Parable of the Rich Fool.” According to the narrative, someone in the crowd asked Jesus: “Teacher, tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me.”

It was a common practice at the time to bring issues such as these to a rabbi for deliberation. Instead of addressing the problem, Jesus challenged the man with the true motives behind the request: “Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.”

The master then started telling the story of a rich man preoccupied with growing his crops and estate, having pleasure and happiness, at the expense of everything else. He lived for his possessions and indulgences, disregarding God and others.

In the end, God knew that the man’s days were numbered, and all his striving was in vain: “(God) said to him, ‘You fool! This very night your soul is required of you; and now who will own what you have prepared?’”

I recently remembered the invaluable lesson within this parable while watching the Boylan sister’s latest movie, “The Greatest Inheritance.” In the story, the Dubose clan’s mother hides her last will on the family property before her death. To inherit the family’s fortune, the four estranged Dubose siblings must embark on an odd scavenger hunt to find the will. The child who finds it inherits the entire estate.

The story may sound unlikely, but it indeed served as the perfect background to develop a story filled with rich spiritual content. In the movie, it becomes clear that the deceased mother was a strong believer who raised her children to prioritize God. As they started their careers, however, their priorities changed.

Eventually, bitterness, resentment and unforgiveness quickly altered the family dynamic and their relationship with God. The mother’s last attempt at healing her family comes from the grave. The scavenger hunt reveals the siblings’ weaknesses and unresolved animosities, pushing them to remember their roots when God and family came before success and possessions.

While watching the movie, I could not help but think about how money often exposes the truth behind people’s character and priorities. Indeed, many family relationships change when inheritance or other financial issues are involved.

Money often exposes the truth behind people’s character and priorities. @AJC #Kingdomfirst #greed #Mondaymotivation
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Jesus’ words to the greedy brother echo as a reminder that life is more precious than any possession, and God’s favor is more valuable than precious stones.

“For where your treasure is, there your heart will also be.” Jesus, the gospel of St. Luke.

Life is more precious than any possession, and God’s favor is more valuable than precious stones. @AJC #Kingdomfirst #greed #Mondaymotivation
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This article was originally published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday, July 16, 2022. Click HERE to find it on the AJC’s website.

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I watched in awe as player No. 7 at the other side of the net jumped to hit the ball. “Flawless,” I said to myself. There was no better word to describe the 15-year-old’s technique and precision.

I counted the number of Division 1 school volleyball coaches watching her intently – eight coaches from around the country took notes after her every kill. My daughter’s team’s defense helplessly scrabbled to stop her. As a parent, it was undoubtedly hard to witness the defeat. As a coach, I took mental notes and marveled at the beautifully synchronized team on the other side of the net.

Four days later, at the end of the National Volleyball tournament, I discovered that No. 7′s team ended up third in the nation.

No. 7 was among numerous kids that stood out by their stature and athletic abilities during the national competition. Their moves on the court, vertical jump, or speed to the ball indeed reveal years of focused training and dedication.

As I walked around the venue, my 5′5″ frame was dwarfed by 6-foot-tall (plus) girls from all 50 states and territories. But as much as I enjoy watching their graceful jumps and precise hits over the net, the smaller-sized hitters always capture my heart. Indeed, watching an average-height girl soar above the net on an impressive vertical jump, overcoming her naturally small stature, always brings a smile to my face. Because I know it too well – it takes years of arduous training to rise above one’s physical limitations – no pun intended.

Whether in business, sports, or any challenging task we encounter in life, hurdles are certainly one of the reasons many people give up on their dreams. Some see hurdles as mountains, giving them power and thus determining they cannot be overcome.

Some people see hurdles as mountains, giving them power and thus determining they cannot be overcome. @AJC #limitations #motivation #mindset #inspiration #success #goals #fitness #believe
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But others see them for what they truly are: obstacles or detours on the way to our goals – not insurmountable mountains. They know their limitations but don’t let them define them. They set their eyes on the destination and keep moving, conquering the mountain by hard work and faith.

The story takes an entirely new connotation when we add God to the equation because we know our limitations do not constrain God. When faith enters our conquests, we understand that the One who spoke the stars into existence is by our side, and He’s the God of the impossible. He gives power to the weak and capability to the lowly. He is all-powerful and desires to enable his children to accomplish their dreams and God-given goals.

When faith enters our conquests, we understand that the One who spoke the stars into existence is by our side, and He’s the God of the impossible. @AJC #limitations #motivation #mindset #inspiration #success #goals #fitness #believe
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More than a can-do attitude, those who allow faith to push them through their limit have an added asset that cannot be overlooked. Their capabilities may be ordinary. Their stature may be less than impressive, yet, because of their hard work and faith in a God who can do more than they can ask for, they can reach the stars. They take the first step, trembling, not ignoring how inadequate they genuinely are but planting their hearts on who they know their God to be.

Maybe you’re facing that hurdle. Your heart wants to soar to new heights. You dream of that next step in your career, degree, or scholarship to play your beloved sport at college. If that is you, and you know God is on your side, look at the obstacles and see them for what they truly are: tiny pebbles compared to the strength and power of almighty God.

If you know God is on your side, look at the obstacles and see them for what they truly are: tiny pebbles compared to the strength and power of Almighty God. @AJC #limitations #motivation #mindset #inspiration #success #goals #fitness …
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“He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall, but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not be faint.” Prophet Isaiah

This article was originally published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday, July 9th, 2022.

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Gaither Music Group is known worldwide for its award-winning recordings, including the Gaither Gospel Series. It is one of the world’s largest independent Christian music companies and a household name for millions of fans. Their Gaither Homecoming videos showcase gospel music pioneers, many of which are the most renowned performers in the gospel genre.

I have enjoyed their “Gaither Homecoming” videos for many years.

Some time ago, my husband and I watched one of their recordings when the show paused for an interview with Vestal Goodman. Goodman died in 2003 after a longstanding career in the Southern gospel genre for over half a century.

During the interview, the late singer was asked what advice she would give aspiring gospel singers. Without hesitation, she quickly replied in her sweet Southern accent:

“I tell the young people who want to sing for Jesus: If you don’t keep God in it, you might as well hang it up and go get you a job in the grocery store. It ain’t gonna work. It just plain ain’t gonna work.”

Her words made me smile. Because truth be told, sometimes we may be so caught up in our “kingdom work” that we forget why we serve in the first place. Likewise, we may get so focused on making our work for the kingdom prosper that we forget that success “God’s way” doesn’t necessarily mean that our books hit the New York Times bestselling list.

Sometimes we may be so caught up in our “kingdom work” that we forget why we serve in the first place. @AJC #Reasontoserve #serveGod #Kingdomwork
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It is something to ponder, indeed. How many “kingdom workers” strive so hard to do “great things for God” that they forget that we are not the masters — we are mere instruments when it comes to kingdom work. God is the designer, maestro, and planner and, therefore, responsible for growing our reach as we faithfully do our assigned work.

Indeed, if we know God has called us to serve him, we should trust him to open doors and grow our sphere of influence. He knows the right timing and when we are ready to receive more. When our hearts are in the right place, and at the right time, he opens doors that no one can close and shuts doors that no one can open. That’s His responsibility.

When our hearts are in the right place, and at the right time, God opens doors that no one can close and shuts doors that no one can open. That’s His responsibility.
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Our responsibility is not to strive to do more or be more. Our commitment should be to obey our calling and keep our priorities in check: God first, then family, and next, ministry.

It is not uncommon that these priorities become jumbled when we try to do God’s work our way.

It’s a chilling thought because what good does one’s ministry do if their family is hurting. Worse yet, what is the use of having the applause of men if Heaven is silent because we didn’t serve for the right reasons?

Oh, may it never be!

I’d rather have my children desire to know God because my work for Him did not rob them of precious time with me, than resent Him because my “kingdom” work kept me away from them.

I’d rather have people want to know God because of my faith rather than because of eloquent words I might speak or write.

Instead, I’d take the brunt of the criticism, as I stand for God’s truth rather than have multitudes follow me, and yet know that God looks away because I chose compromise over obedience and men’s approval over His heart.

I’d take the brunt of the criticism, as I stand for God’s truth rather than have multitudes follow me, and yet know that God looks away because I chose compromise over obedience and men’s approval over His heart.
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I’d rather have Jesus. I’d rather have family.

May we never forget that the growth is not ours to keep, anyway. It’s meant to be for God’s glory. We are mere stewards of His gifts.

As Vestal Goodman beautifully put it: If it’s not from God, and it’s not for Him, may we never want it, anyway.

This article was originally published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday, June 19, 2021. Click HERE to find it on the AJC’s website.

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I shook my head in disbelief as I read the news shared in the group text.

A dear friend is fighting for her life at the hospital, and as I reached out to my close friends to ask for prayers, they shared about two other acquaintances from my previous church who are also in critical condition.

My heart sank. These friends did not have any known health concerns until a couple of weeks ago. They are full of life, still young, and some of the godliest people I know.

Since then, my friends are constantly in my mind and prayers. Their families’ lives have turned upside down with a phone call, and I know what they’re going through all too well. I can’t do anything about their tragedy, but I can undoubtedly touch heaven for them as I pray for healing, peace, comfort, and strength for their families.

I believe one of the hardest things when tragedies strike, is to try to understand why God allows them. Tragedy never makes sense. Why does a newborn die? Why are hospitals filled with young children fighting cancer? Why is my beautiful, bigger-than-life friend fighting for her life? Why did my brother-in-law’s plane crash on that sunny day ten years ago? Why?

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We hopelessly try to wrap our minds around tragic events, hoping to find meaning in the seemingly meaningless, trying to keep our faith in a God that allows tragedy to happen.

The Apostle Paul wrote about that persevering faith in his letter to the Romans when he penned down one of the most repeated verses in the New Testament:

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

Hindsight is 20/20, and indeed, those who have pressed on through trials by faith, trusting God even when life does not make sense, can testify to having found hope and purpose from their deepest valleys.

Hindsight is 20/20, and indeed, those who have pressed on through trials by faith, trusting God even when life does not make sense, can testify to having found hope and purpose from their deepest valleys. @AJC #faith #loss #tragedy
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Many are the men and women who have started foundations to help people who suffer from the same disease that killed their loved ones. Many are the people who have helped others walk through the shadows of divorce, financial loss, and death because of their personal experiences in the valley. Like me, many are those who understand the pain of a cancer diagnosis or a loved one’s sudden death.

Empathy is a beautiful thing. Humanitarian efforts would not be the same were it not for the empathy that only personal pain can bring. There is a purpose for each tragedy – if only to make us more human, more sensitive to our fellow men’s suffering, mold us and make us living proofs that God can turn our ashes into something beautiful.

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The challenge is to keep pressing on by faith, never giving up on God, trusting that he is still good, even when the worst happens. Because, at the end of the day, if we trust that our God is indeed good, then we can affirm that he will make everything work together for our good and his glory. It’ll be for our good when our lives gain a new purpose because we suffered. It’ll be for his glory when others see his love reflected in the gestures of our hands and in the love that we extend to our hurting neighbors.

Pray for those who suffer. Reach out to those going through that all too familiar valley you have traveled before. Love them. Encourage them. There’s a reason for your paths crossing. If only so that you pray with the passion of a heart that has walked that same valley and landed safely on the other side by God’s grace.

Did this article touch your heart? Would you like to share your experience with me or ask me to pray for you? Please send me an email at pholbrook@soaringwithhim.com or write a comment below, and I promise to write back!

This article was originally published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday, May 21st, 2022. Click HERE to find it on the AJC’s website.

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“She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: ‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.’” King Lemuel, Proverbs 31.

We do not know much about the author of the proverb that describes the traits of a noble, godly woman. Some scholars have surmised that Lemuel is actually King Solomon, and therefore the mother giving the advice would be Bathsheba. Others theorize that Lemuel is Hezekiah, one of Judah’s kings. Regardless, no commentator denies the divine inspiration for the poetic words in the proverb.

Proverbs 31 describes a woman whose heart is firmly committed to an honorable and fruitful life. She is a wise and hardworking entrepreneur who nevertheless prioritizes her husband and children. Her faith rises above life’s circumstances as she “laughs at the days to come.” She speaks with wisdom and is a faithful teacher.

The Proverbs 31 woman doesn’t have a name because she is King Lemuel’s mother’s desire for her son. But her face is indeed revealed in countless women whose priorities are easily recognized by the fruit of their lives. Many will never be in the spotlight.

I met one such mother when I interviewed Helen Smallbone.

The name is not familiar, and understandably so. The title of her upcoming memoir, “Behind the Lights,” hints at the reason. Helen has not been in the spotlight until now, but the fruit of her life’s work as a “mum” is well-known in Christian circles.

Helen is the mother of “For King & Country’s” stars Luke and Joel Smallbone and Christian singer-songwriter and actress Rebecca St. James.

Widely recognized in the contemporary Christian music community, her children have collectively earned five Grammy Awards. Their songs have filled the playlist of many Christian music lovers for the past three decades.

I had read about the Smallbones’ astonishing story on the news years ago, when “For King & Country” first became widely popular. But our interview and Helen’s memoir give beautiful insight into the testimony of a mother with unwavering faith through challenging circumstances.

In 1991, after losing their business and all material possessions in Australia, the Smallbone family relocated to Nashville, Tennessee, where Helen’s husband, David Smallbone, then began a career in music management. At the time, the couple and their seven children had no income. During our interview, Helen recounted how the family had to work together to make ends meet and restart life in a different country.

Helen’s faith in God was the pillar that sustained her as a mother and wife through the years. She has learned to live in quiet dependence upon God’s word and prayer through life’s valleys and mountaintops, and model that type of faith to her children.

She did not know it all the while, but God was preparing this Proverbs 31 humble mother and grandmother to a higher calling. Her role as a mother and her influence on the family’s radical faith were undoubtedly crucial to fulfilling her children’s life purpose. And now, God has called her to mentor moms worldwide through MUMlife, a nonprofit she co-founded to encourage mothers and families with God-inspired wisdom.

“If you could go back to 1991 and God gave you a glimpse of your family’s future, what would you think?” I asked during our interview.

“Oh, I would probably laugh!” she said in her beautiful Australian accent. “I would think, ‘that’s crazy – it’s not gonna happen.’”

I can relate. Indeed, it is impossible to know what God will do with our brokenness when we respond to life’s trials with unwavering faith. But this I know from experience: steadfast faith opens doors that are pretty hard to believe, and, in the process, it inspires our children to “arise and call (us) blessed.”

Learn more about Helen Smallbone’s memoir and ministry at MUMLife.com. Watch or listen to Patricia’s full interview with Helen on her YouTube channel and podcast.

This article was originally published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday, April 23rd, 2022. Click HERE to find it on the AJC’s website.

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The father saw the small figure from a distance and squinted his eyes in the direction.

Could it be true? “That cannot be,” he thought. However, he knew it in his heart: God had answered his prayers. Without the slightest hesitation, his feet started moving toward the dirty, raggedy figure walking in his direction. The father’s slow steps turned into a sprint as his heart pounded in his chest.

Arms open wide and without a second thought, the father took the young man into his arms. Tears streaming down his cheek, he kissed his son’s dirty face as his trembling arms reached around the frail frame.

“My son! My beloved son! You are back.”

The Message Bible translation beautifully depicts Jesus’ following words describing the scene:

“The son started his speech: ‘Father, I’ve sinned against God, I’ve sinned before you; I don’t deserve to be called your son ever again.’

”But the father wasn’t listening. He was calling to the servants, ‘Quick. Bring a clean set of clothes and dress him. Put the family ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Then get a prize-winning heifer and roast it. We’re going to feast! We’re going to have a wonderful time! My son is here — given up for dead and now alive! Given up for lost and now found!'”

Perhaps Jesus’ most well-known parable is the story of the Prodigal son. It is found in the 15th chapter of the gospel of Luke, as Jesus shares the parable as an illustration of God’s long-suffering love for his children. It is a story that beautifully portrays God’s unmerited grace and his willingness to give us second chances.

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I thought about this treasured parable while watching the premiere of the new movie “The Mulligan,” which will be released in theaters for two nights only on April 18 and 19.

I attended the red-carpet premiere in Augusta during Masters week, where I had the privilege of interviewing, among others, director Michael O. Sajbel and the talented cast: the legendary Pat Boone and leading actor Eric Close.

The movie’s beautiful scenery and references to the popular game will undoubtedly entertain the audience. But it is the story behind the story that grants the film well-deserved praise.

Based on the popular book by Ken Blanchard and Wally Armstrong, “The Mulligan” serves as an inspiring reminder that second chances are only one shot away from those who reach out to God for forgiveness and grace.

In the story, Paul McAlister (Eric Close) is a successful businessman whose company is growing expediently at the expense of his family relationships. Like many of us today, he lost perspective of what is truly important in life. His disregard for his family cost him his most important relationships. In short, McAlister was a prodigal son who needed a do-over — or a “Mulligan.”

Golf lovers know the term well — a Mulligan is a second try after your first shot has gone awry. And McAlister gets his second chance when he encounters the “Old Pro” (Pat Boone), who points the businessman toward what truly matters in life while gently leading him to find the relentless love of God, who offers us “the ultimate mulligan” in Jesus Christ.

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It is a story relatable to everyone who has ever needed a second chance — prodigal sons and daughters who often lose perspective of priorities and “squander their father’s fortune” with temporary and ultimately unsatisfying things.

But thank God for grace! Indeed, God’s perpetual invitation to reconcile and give us a second chance is the ultimate Mulligan to everyone who believes.

To find out more about “The Mulligan” and where to watch it, visit www.themulliganmovie.com. The interview with Pat Boone and Eric Close will be on Patricia’s Podcast and YouTube channel on April 14.

This article was originally published in Patricia’s column for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Saturday, April 9th, 2022. Click HERE to find it on the AJC’s website.

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